Putting the PTSD stigma behind you
Combat PTSD Wounded Times
January 21, 2019
Apparently you got the wrong message about PTSD.
Is there something wrong with being a survivor?
Isn't that supposed to mean that you lived through something?
That is supposed to mean that you were stronger than whatever it was that tried to kill you. Right?
Someone gave you the twisted thought that having PTSD meant you were weak instead of strong.
Did you know that PTSD has more to do with strength than weakness?
PTSD hits you after you survived something. It hits the emotional part of your brain, and that is where your soul lives.
The stronger you feel good stuff in life, the stronger you feel pain. That is why other people can walk away from the same thing changed in other ways.
No one survives something and remains unchanged by it. Some react differently, including becoming real jerks about anyone who felt it more than they did.
Maybe they are jealous because you could feel love more deeply, happiness more joyfully or marvel at something as simple as a sunrise?
OK, now for the getting rid of the stigma part of PTSD.
It is OK to grieve. It is OK to feel sad. It is OK to have a million thoughts run through your head.
It is NOT OK to give up on the life that survived the thing that started PTSD.
It is NOT OK to allow someone else to put roadblocks in your way when you are trying to heal.
It is NOT OK to spend your days regretting something simply because you do not understand it.
It is NOT OK to settle for fools defining you by PTSD when they refuse to learn what has been available online for decades.
It is NOT OK to let them talk about something they do not understand while you remain silent instead of educating them.
It is NOT OK to only look at what is "wrong" in your life, when you could be seeing what IS STRONG within you.
Stop giving power back to the thing that already lost. YOU WON and it is time to #TakeBackYourLife from PTSD.