We've seen the images but they remember their smiles, the way they laughed, the way they shared what they had, the way they cared, above all, how much they were loved.
We've read snippets from their lives, but their families and friends were there all along.
General Casey said not to grieve for them but grieve with them. They were inviting us into their family today at the Fort Hood Memorial.
These men and women live and die for the public, but they want no publicity for themselves, but they do want publicity for their units and the whole family they serve with. When one of them falls, they hold a memorial much like the one we saw publicly today. They grieve and send the bodies of their friends back home, while they pick up their weapons and do their duties. They know if they do not more could die. While we can call in sick take a day off, coworkers may have to answer a few more phone calls but if they don't their co-workers could end up dying instead of them. Our jobs take care of business, but theirs' takes care of lives.
After what happened when so many were lost in this attack and so many wounded, we need to remember that this was their home. This is where they live, their families live and a place where there is supposed to be a calmness away from the chaos. Please hold them all in your prayers and the next time you read about one of them falling in Iraq or Afghanistan, understand that it is not just about the fallen but those they leave behind as well.
Stars and Stripes stories about the Fort Hood shooting
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Muslim groups quick to condemn shooting
Civilian police officer acted quickly to help subdue alleged gunman
This may be the most troubling article of all
Despite Army efforts, no catch-all test for troubled soldiers
Trauma specialists are in high demand but the military will not open the doors to all of the trained trauma responders to fill in until more can be trained that have been acceptable to them. In other words, people like me need not apply. I only have over 27 years of doing this plus living with it, but the Chaplains I belong to, good enough for the police departments, fire departments and most walks of life, are not good enough for the military or the Veterans Administration. We're trained, certified and have to carry insurance. We act as chaplains wherever we are for whoever needs it. In my case, I act as a Chaplain reaching the entire country on this blog and my website, plus with the videos I make being used in more places than I can even remember.
The reason why I bring this up is, while the soldiers at Fort Hood put a public view of their grief, they fight a very private battle healing their wounds. Not just the wounds we can see but the ones it takes brain scans to see. They try to hide the need they have but their family and friends see the changes even if they do not know what those changes really signify.
The military and the VA need to bring in as many people as possible to take care of them and they need to stop waiting for the next crisis to strike. After what happened at Fort Hood last week, this is about to get a whole lot worse. Not just at Fort Hood but on all bases with soldiers wondering if they will ever really feel in a safe zone ever again. They don't have one in Iraq. They don't have one in Afghanistan. They thought they had one on Fort Hood, but now, now they don't even have that. If you think they have trauma related problems now the military can't handle, this will make it a lot worse.
We've read snippets from their lives, but their families and friends were there all along.
General Casey said not to grieve for them but grieve with them. They were inviting us into their family today at the Fort Hood Memorial.
These men and women live and die for the public, but they want no publicity for themselves, but they do want publicity for their units and the whole family they serve with. When one of them falls, they hold a memorial much like the one we saw publicly today. They grieve and send the bodies of their friends back home, while they pick up their weapons and do their duties. They know if they do not more could die. While we can call in sick take a day off, coworkers may have to answer a few more phone calls but if they don't their co-workers could end up dying instead of them. Our jobs take care of business, but theirs' takes care of lives.
After what happened when so many were lost in this attack and so many wounded, we need to remember that this was their home. This is where they live, their families live and a place where there is supposed to be a calmness away from the chaos. Please hold them all in your prayers and the next time you read about one of them falling in Iraq or Afghanistan, understand that it is not just about the fallen but those they leave behind as well.
Fort Hood killings 'incomprehensible,' Obama says
November 10, 2009 4:23 p.m. EST
STORY HIGHLIGHTS
NEW: "Grieve with us; don't grieve for us," Army chief of staff says
Fact that soldiers died on base "makes the tragedy even more painful," Obama says
Troops, military brass, Congress members, Texas governor also attend memorial
Remains of one victim greeted by honor guard on return to Wisconsin
Fort Hood, Texas (CNN) -- The sound of taps echoed across the Texas plains Tuesday after President Obama pledged that the work of those killed in last week's Fort Hood massacre will go on despite their "incomprehensible" slayings.
Speaking to an estimated 15,000 people at a memorial service at the post, Obama vowed that justice will be done in the attack that left 13 dead and 42 wounded.
Though he told the families that "no words can fill the void that has been left," he added, "your loved ones endure through the life of our nation."
"Their life's work is our security and the freedom that we too often take for granted. Every evening that the sun sets on a tranquil town; every dawn that a flag is unfurled; every moment that an American enjoys life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness -- that is their legacy," the president said.
After his remarks, Obama and first lady Michelle Obama laid a presidential coin before each of the 13 battlefield crosses -- the helmet, boots and rifle representing each of those killed -- before family members and comrades filed past.
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http://www.cnn.com/2009/US/11/10/fort.hood.memorial/index.html
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President Barack Obama speaks at the memorial service for the victims of the shootings on the Fort Hood Army post in Fort Hood, Tx. November 10, 2009. (Official White House Photo by Chuck Kennedy)
Text of President Obama's remarks at Fort Hood
From the White House press office
We come together filled with sorrow for the thirteen Americans that we have lost; with gratitude for the lives that they led; and with a determination to honor them through the work we carry on.
This is a time of war. And yet these Americans did not die on a foreign field of battle. They were killed here, on American soil, in the heart of this great American community. It is this fact that makes the tragedy even more painful and even more incomprehensible.
For those families who have lost a loved one, no words can fill the void that has been left. We knew these men and women as soldiers and caregivers. You knew them as mothers and fathers; sons and daughters; sisters and brothers.
But here is what you must also know: your loved ones endure through the life of our nation. Their memory will be honored in the places they lived and by the people they touched. Their life’s work is our security, and the freedom that we too often take for granted. Every evening that the sun sets on a tranquil town; every dawn that a flag is unfurled; every moment that an American enjoys life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness – that is their legacy.
Neither this country – nor the values that we were founded upon – could exist without men and women like these thirteen Americans. And that is why we must pay tribute to their stories.
Chief Warrant Officer Michael Cahill had served in the National Guard and worked as a physician’s assistant for decades. A husband and father of three, he was so committed to his patients that on the day he died, he was back at work just weeks after having a heart attack.
Major Libardo Eduardo Caraveo spoke little English when he came to America as a teenager. But he put himself through college, earned a PhD, and was helping combat units cope with the stress of deployment. He is survived by his wife, sons and step-daughters.
Staff Sergeant Justin DeCrow joined the Army right after high school, married his high school sweetheart, and had served as a light wheeled mechanic and Satellite Communications Operator. He was known as an optimist, a mentor, and a loving husband and father.
After retiring from the Army as a Major, John Gaffaney cared for society’s most vulnerable during two decades as a psychiatric nurse. He spent three years trying to return to active duty in this time of war, and he was preparing to deploy to Iraq as a Captain. He leaves behind a wife and son.
Specialist Frederick Greene was a Tennessean who wanted to join the Army for a long time, and did so in 2008 with the support of his family. As a combat engineer he was a natural leader, and he is survived by his wife and two daughters.
Specialist Jason Hunt was also recently married, with three children to care for. He joined the Army after high school. He did a tour in Iraq, and it was there that he re-enlisted for six more years on his 21st birthday so that he could continue to serve.
Staff Sergeant Amy Krueger was an athlete in high school, joined the Army shortly after 9/11, and had since returned home to speak to students about her experience. When her mother told her she couldn’t take on Osama bin Laden by herself, Amy replied: “Watch me.”
Private First Class Aaron Nemelka was an Eagle Scout who just recently signed up to do one of the most dangerous jobs in the service – diffuse bombs – so that he could help save lives. He was proudly carrying on a tradition of military service that runs deep within his family.
Private First Class Michael Pearson loved his family and loved his music, and his goal was to be a music teacher. He excelled at playing the guitar, and could create songs on the spot and show others how to play. He joined the military a year ago, and was preparing for his first deployment.
Captain Russell Seager worked as a nurse for the VA, helping veterans with Post-Traumatic Stress. He had great respect for the military, and signed up to serve so that he could help soldiers cope with the stress of combat and return to civilian life. He leaves behind a wife and son.
Private Francheska Velez, the daughter of a father from Colombia and a Puerto Rican mother, had recently served in Korea and in Iraq, and was pursuing a career in the Army. When she was killed, she was pregnant with her first child, and was excited about becoming a mother.
Lieutenant Colonel Juanita Warman was the daughter and granddaughter of Army veterans. She was a single mother who put herself through college and graduate school, and served as a nurse practitioner while raising her two daughters. She also left behind a loving husband.
Private First Class Kham Xiong came to America from Thailand as a small child. He was a husband and father who followed his brother into the military because his family had a strong history of service. He was preparing for his first deployment to Afghanistan.
These men and women came from all parts of the country. Some had long careers in the military. Some had signed up to serve in the shadow of 9/11. Some had known intense combat in Iraq and Afghanistan, and some cared for those did. Their lives speak to the strength, the dignity and the decency of those who serve, and that is how they will be remembered.
That same spirit is embodied in the community here at Fort Hood, and in the many wounded who are still recovering. In those terrible minutes during the attack, soldiers made makeshift tourniquets out of their clothes. They braved gunfire to reach the wounded, and ferried them to safety in the backs of cars and a pick-up truck.
One young soldier, Amber Bahr, was so intent on helping others that she did not realize for some time that she, herself, had been shot in the back. Two police officers – Mark Todd and Kim Munley – saved countless lives by risking their own. One medic – Francisco de la Serna – treated both Officer Munley and the gunman who shot her.
It may be hard to comprehend the twisted logic that led to this tragedy. But this much we do know – no faith justifies these murderous and craven acts; no just and loving God looks upon them with favor. And for what he has done, we know that the killer will be met with justice – in this world, and the next.
These are trying times for our country. In Afghanistan and Pakistan, the same extremists who killed nearly 3,000 Americans continue to endanger America, our allies, and innocent Afghans and Pakistanis. In Iraq, we are working to bring a war to a successful end, as there are still those who would deny the Iraqi people the future that Americans and Iraqis have sacrificed so much for.
As we face these challenges, the stories of those at Fort Hood reaffirm the core values that we are fighting for, and the strength that we must draw upon. Theirs are tales of American men and women answering an extraordinary call – the call to serve their comrades, their communities, and their country. In an age of selfishness, they embody responsibility. In an era of division, they call upon us to come together. In a time of cynicism, they remind us of who we are as Americans.
We are a nation that endures because of the courage of those who defend it. We saw that valor in those who braved bullets here at Fort Hood, just as surely as we see it in those who signed up knowing that they would serve in harm’s way.
We are a nation of laws whose commitment to justice is so enduring that we would treat a gunman and give him due process, just as surely as we will see that he pays for his crimes.
We are a nation that guarantees the freedom to worship as one chooses. And instead of claiming God for our side, we remember Lincoln’s words, and always pray to be on the side of God.
We are a nation that is dedicated to the proposition that all men and women are created equal. We live that truth within our military, and see it in the varied backgrounds of those we lay to rest today. We defend that truth at home and abroad, and we know that Americans will always be found on the side of liberty and equality. That is who we are as a people.
Tomorrow is Veterans Day. It is a chance to pause, and to pay tribute – for students to learn of the struggles that preceded them; for families to honor the service of parents and grandparents; for citizens to reflect upon the sacrifices that have been made in pursuit of a more perfect union.
For history is filled with heroes. You may remember the stories of a grandfather who marched across Europe; an uncle who fought in Vietnam; a sister who served in the Gulf. But as we honor the many generations who have served, I think all of us – every single American – must acknowledge that this generation has more than proved itself the equal of those who have come before.
We need not look to the past for greatness, because it is before our very eyes.
This generation of soldiers, sailors, airmen, Marines and Coast Guardsmen have volunteered in a time of certain danger. They are part of the finest fighting force that the world has ever known. They have served tour after tour of duty in distant, different and difficult places. They have stood watch in blinding deserts and on snowy mountains. They have extended the opportunity of self-government to peoples that have suffered tyranny and war. They are man and woman; white, black, and brown; of all faiths and stations – all Americans, serving together to protect our people, while giving others half a world away the chance to lead a better life.
In today’s wars, there is not always a simple ceremony that signals our troops’ success – no surrender papers to be signed, or capital to be claimed. But the measure of their impact is no less great – in a world of threats that no know borders, it will be marked in the safety of our cities and towns, and the security and opportunity that is extended abroad. And it will serve as testimony to the character of those who serve, and the example that you set for America and for the world.
Here, at Fort Hood, we pay tribute to thirteen men and women who were not able to escape the horror of war, even in the comfort of home. Later today, at Fort Lewis, one community will gather to remember so many in one Stryker Brigade who have fallen in Afghanistan.
Long after they are laid to rest – when the fighting has finished, and our nation has endured; when today’s servicemen and women are veterans, and their children have grown – it will be said of this generation that they believed under the most trying of tests; that they persevered not just when it was easy, but when it was hard; and that they paid the price and bore the burden to secure this nation, and stood up for the values that live in the hearts of all free peoples.
So we say goodbye to those who now belong to eternity. We press ahead in pursuit of the peace that guided their service. May God bless the memory of those we lost. And may God bless the United States of America.
Stars and Stripes stories about the Fort Hood shooting
Stars and StripesEuropean edition, Tuesday, November 10, 2009, 2009
Fort Hood deals with aftermath of shooting as details of accused gunman emerge
After the shooting, combat instincts kicked in
Muslim groups quick to condemn shooting
Civilian police officer acted quickly to help subdue alleged gunman
This may be the most troubling article of all
Despite Army efforts, no catch-all test for troubled soldiers
Roughly 34,000 soldiers have been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder. And the Army has 194 civilian, 121 military and 93 contract psychiatrists available to its population of more than half a million people, according to the surgeon general’s office. In the war zones, there are about 200 behavioral health specialists deployed in Iraq and just 30 in Afghanistan.
Trauma specialists are in high demand but the military will not open the doors to all of the trained trauma responders to fill in until more can be trained that have been acceptable to them. In other words, people like me need not apply. I only have over 27 years of doing this plus living with it, but the Chaplains I belong to, good enough for the police departments, fire departments and most walks of life, are not good enough for the military or the Veterans Administration. We're trained, certified and have to carry insurance. We act as chaplains wherever we are for whoever needs it. In my case, I act as a Chaplain reaching the entire country on this blog and my website, plus with the videos I make being used in more places than I can even remember.
The reason why I bring this up is, while the soldiers at Fort Hood put a public view of their grief, they fight a very private battle healing their wounds. Not just the wounds we can see but the ones it takes brain scans to see. They try to hide the need they have but their family and friends see the changes even if they do not know what those changes really signify.
The military and the VA need to bring in as many people as possible to take care of them and they need to stop waiting for the next crisis to strike. After what happened at Fort Hood last week, this is about to get a whole lot worse. Not just at Fort Hood but on all bases with soldiers wondering if they will ever really feel in a safe zone ever again. They don't have one in Iraq. They don't have one in Afghanistan. They thought they had one on Fort Hood, but now, now they don't even have that. If you think they have trauma related problems now the military can't handle, this will make it a lot worse.
