Thursday, November 25, 2010

Making our war fighters expendable when they are gay

I've read a lot of twisted opinions on gays in the military but this one blows my mind. When they are discharged for being gay, that in itself sends the message they are expendable.


ex·pend·a·ble/ikˈspendəbəl/Adjective

1. (of an object) Designed to be used only once and then abandoned or destroyed.
2. Of little significance when compared to an overall purpose, and therefore able to be abandoned.
Other nations seem to be able to understand that gay people should not be treated any differently than anyone else but in this nation of supposedly equal rights for all, the government is telling gay people they are not included in the deal. Being gay is not a choice but they do use their freewill right to choose to serve in the military, risk their lives and yes, even willing to die for the sake of someone else. There was a time when the color of a man's skin prevented them from serving in the military. Women had to dress up like men in order to serve and hide their gender. Double standards still live on.

The debate itself tells the other nations we depend on that their soldiers are not up to our standards when they allow gay people to serve without any problem at all.
While the U.S. adheres to a "don't ask, don't tell" policy toward gays in the military, its staunchest ally across the Atlantic is nine years removed from dramatically changing its own stance toward gay and lesbian service members – allowing completely open military service without fear of reprisal. And nearly a decade after the policy shift, the U.K.'s Independent reports the British military and its members have grown pretty comfortable in their own skin.

Openly gay service was allowed in 2000 after a two-year court battle involving four service members that was eventually settled by the European Court of Human Rights. Since then, the report details a steady progression toward fuller openness – from initial reluctance on the part of gay service members to "out" themselves, despite the rule change, to eventually marching in Gay Pride parades and moving into military housing with their partners.
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We are supposed to be a nation of equality and generation after generation has had to fight for that to happen. When it comes to the military, they should never have to fight to be seen as equal to everyone else putting their lives on the line for what this country claims to be in the first place.

HORVAT: Making our war fighters expendable
Homosexual experimentation jeopardizes lives and honor
By John Horvat II -The Washington Times4:22 p.m., Wednesday, November 24, 2010


How much is the life of an American soldier worth? When does a soldier become expendable? Those are the questions we need to ask in the coming days as the government considers repeal of the military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy regarding homosexuals in uniform.

A wounded soldier in Afghanistan will find himself airlifted halfway around the world for treatment within hours. In this, we see the admirable care and great value given to American lives. Such solicitude on the battleground is not shown off the battlefield, however. It seems there are times when the American solider becomes expendable. This is particularly the case in the raging debate over "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." Everything is centered on a Dec. 1 report the military will release analyzing the impact of its repeal on the armed forces.

The liberally sensitive results of this "analysis" are so predictable it's almost senseless to go through the trouble to release it. Everything that has leaked out about the process indicates the report will discuss how to repeal - not whether to repeal - the ban on homosexuality in the military. It will conclude that inclusion of open homosexuals in the military will not have significant adverse effects. It will conclude that the soldier is expendable. He can be used for social experiments. He can be penalized for the religious values he holds. He can be deprived of the freedom for which he fights.
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Making our war fighters expendable

A gay serviceman/woman, will find themselves being airlifted halfway around the world surrounded by soldiers from other nations where they would be welcomed only to be returned to their own country where they are a topic of debate because some use a religious belief they have to stand in judgment over something Christ never talked about in this same nation where all are supposed to be able to worship according to their own beliefs. They will quote from Acts and what Paul wrote but never consider the fact this is the same man so sure of what he was doing, he hunted down Christians wanting them to die before Christ opened his eyes. He got that wrong and he got a lot wrong after. But we're not supposed to be about a nation of one church, one belief or one set of rules for some with another for a different group. We're supposed to be a nation of equal rights for all.

For wounded Iraq war veteran, new, accessible home in Fort Worth is 'a blessing'

For wounded Iraq war veteran, new, accessible home in Fort Worth is 'a blessing'
12:00 AM CST on Thursday, November 25, 2010

Angela K. Brown,
FORT WORTH – Marine Cpl. Zach Briseno jokes that he's taller since returning from Iraq – although he's most grateful that the prosthetic legs that add several inches to his height allow him to chase after his 5-year-old son.

Although he'd never complain, it has taken time for Briseno to get used to life after losing his legs in an explosion, and it's not easy for him to move around his apartment in his wheelchair. That's why a nonprofit organization is providing him with a home that will have wider doors, lower counters, a special shower and other safety features.

"It's truly a blessing for me and my family," Briseno said this week as relatives and friends surrounded him on the lot where the home is to be built by next spring.

HelpingaHero.org, a Houston-based nonprofit, has provided nearly two dozen new homes for veterans severely wounded in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. Each project is a partnership with a developer and builder and supported by individual donations from the community, said Meredith Iler, the organization's chairwoman.
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For wounded Iraq war veteran, new, accessible home

Soldier tells of health problems after friend killed

PTSD does not know nation from nation. It does not know anything other than a human exposed to traumatic events is a target.

Soldier tells of health problems after friend killed
A 26-year-old soldier from Cheshire has told how he was being medically discharged from the Army after developing post traumatic stress disorder as a result of his experiences in Afghanistan.

Private Mitchell Tyler - who was born in Oberon, New South Wales, Australia, but moved to Sandbach at the age of 14 - said he suffered panic attacks, depression and had undergone a "dramatic life change".

Private Tyler, whose wife Larissa, 25, is a member of the American National Guard and comes from Chicago, Illinois, said he had to return from Afghanistan in June after seeing another soldier killed.
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Soldier tells of health problems after friend killed

We understand when a civilian cannot "get over it" when they are exposed to one traumatic event in their lives but we fail to understand when soldiers are exposed over and over again. Is it because we want to believe they are trained to overcome anything? That they are better prepared for all they have to go through?

We fall apart when someone we love, someone we care about dies, yet we don't seem to be able to acknowledge the soldiers see someone they care about killed by bullets and bombs.

We fall apart after a car accident, yet we can't seem to understand that they go through having bombs blow up vehicles in Iraq and Afghanistan.

We get to move on with our daily lives as close to normal as possible but they have to spend their days with the threat of more traumatic events hanging over their heads. Even when their tour is over, they know they can end up going back over and over again. For them the trauma does not end and they carry it all with them while they are expected to just get over it.

Veterans will still be homeless tomorrow

Today people go to shelters and their church to take care of the homeless. Among the people in need are veterans. Here's two stories. Today people care, want to share what they have, spend time with them, but tomorrow they will still be homeless but few will help.

Woman Who Accidentally Started Downtown Fire Is Homeless Veteran
By ABC-7 Reporter Maria Garcia
POSTED: 10:58 am MST November 24, 2010

John Martin, the Director of the Salvation Army, said this woman's situation is just an example of the homeless crisis in El Paso.

"We have 1,400 homeless people in El Paso, and those are not the individuals that you think about, the ones that are in the street corner asking for a dollar or two. These are families. Just two days ago, as an example we had a family of 5 that were living in their car at the parking lot at a Wal-Mart".

EL PASO, Texas -- The homeless woman living in her van inside the Cortez building garage, who investigators say started a fire Monday night is a military veteran.

A Fire Department Spokesman identified her as 57-year old Queen Astro Martin. John Concha said Martin showed investigators her military ID.

Concha said Martin had paid the monthly fee to park her van inside the building garage and was living there. She was trying to fix a propane heater, when the propane leaked out, and in seconds, engulfed her van and two other cars in flames.

She managed to crawl out of the car, but suffered second degree burns on her wrists and flash burns on her face.

"Just evacuating is very stressful when you're having a fire so for her to be able to evacuate during that situation is very amazing...she's very lucky", said Concha.

Martin was referred to the Red Cross, who then took her to the Salvation Army for shelter. She arrived there at about 3am, said, John Martin, director of the Salvation Army branch in El Paso.
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Woman Who Accidentally Started Downtown Fire


AT THANKSGIVING, HOMELESS VETERANS, YOUTH ARE AMONG MILLIONS OF HOMELESS WHO STRUGGLE FOR DIGNITY, WEEK OF DECEMBER 25-DECEMBER 1, 2010
The Wilmington Journal
Originally posted 11/24/2010

WASHINGTON (TEWIRE) - Like many men and women who have served their country proudly before coming home, Samuel Hinton wondered where the warm reception was when he arrived back into the United States after serving in Vietnam.

There was no warm and fuzzy feeling or grand reception after his nine-and-a-half years as an infantry man and finance specialist. Now, decades later, as yet another Thanksgiving week is here, life hasn't grown much warmer.

Hinton and his wife are among the thousands of homeless people who wander the streets by day and sleep in doorways and shelters by night - when shelters are open and available. On Thanksgiving Day, the couple who live in Silver Spring, Md., will no doubt be offered plenty to eat from generous donations of caring people. But, like others, the next day, they are back on the streets again, determined to maintain dignity while leaning on fellow human beings.
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AT THANKSGIVING, HOMELESS VETERANS

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Finding reason to give thanks


Which image do you think reflects what is happening in America this year?

Is it the first with a big family saving a seat for you with a table full of food? Is it the second one when a solider has returned home? Or is it the third one when a woman is alone clearly using the coat of a soldier to keep warm?

When we think the rest of the country will spend Thanksgiving Day with much to be thankful for, it makes our lives pretty depressing if we do not have the ability to celebrate the day the same way.  It is hard to find reasons to be thankful at all.

When we read about foreclosures, it is hard to take comfort knowing we are close to it ourselves.  There is no hope in more joining us suffering than getting out of the suffering.  Read about people losing their jobs, running out of unemployment, losing all they worked hard for, and it is nearly impossible to avoid thinking that we could end up the same way.

So what is it about us that makes some of us rise about whatever hardship we encounter? What makes some of us so different?  Norman Rockwell found that something and he used that gift to help others see not only what is wrong but inspire what is possible so that the hopeless find reason to hope again.

When we read about veterans suffering because of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, it is easy to feel hopeless.  After all, given how long this has taken a toll on the men and women fighting our battles, we realize that we've only taken baby steps to address this wound.  Read about suicides and those reports replace the one you read about a few days before about a veteran coming home, feeling that hopeless, but ending up rising above all of it to stand as a testament of the human spirit, healing and helping others.

Read about a veteran in jail and you forget that another state has added Veterans' Courts so they are taken care of properly.

Read about anything bad and it is easy to forget anything good.  Life is like that too.  If we think of what we don't have, we stop seeing what we do have to be grateful for.

My family by blood are all gone now.  My Dad passed away in 1987, then I lost one of my brothers, followed by Mom and then another brother.  My husband's family are all gone as well. My daughter is moving back home, so this is a really sad Thanksgiving for us but it isn't as sad as last year.  My dog was  very sick and we knew he wouldn't be with us much longer.  We didn't want to leave him, so it was just the three of us watching over our dog.  This year we're going to have dinner with friends.  A Vietnam vet my husband served with and his wife invited us over and we are grateful they did.  We know what feeling lonely can do when you have memories of family and friends who used to share your life.

While they are gone now and so is my dog, I love the memories I have of them and grateful for the time we had together.  What a blessing they all were to my life.  I am grateful for friends still close no matter how many years have passed.  Grateful for the daughter, my joy, who graduated with a Bachelor's Degree and is already making her mark as an adult.  Yet I am most grateful for the man I married over 26 years ago and the fact he has lived with PTSD since he came home from Vietnam.  How many obstacles  he's overcome, hardships, heartaches and sleepless nights, they are impossible to measure but just as hard as it is to measure his suffering, it is even more impossible to measure the strength of his character, the quality of his heart and the spirit of his soul.

I can look back at all the pain that has come into our lives but that would rob me of the memories of all the joys we share.  We can all look at what we lack this year, but then we lose memories of what we once had and that takes away the hope that better days are possible.  When we think of all of it, we can even find things to be thankful for even in hardships.  After all the Pilgrims didn't have it so good when they celebrated their day of giving thanks but they were grateful for what they did have.  They must have thought about the people they left back in England, the people who died on the ships and those who perished that first harsh winter but even they found reason to be thankful.  If they did, so can all of us.

California company needs to be forced to honor service of Army Reservist?

Calif. sued firm for firing Army reservist
The Associated Press
Posted : Wednesday Nov 24, 2010 9:34:04 EST
SAN JOSE, Calif. — The federal government is suing a Northern California firm for firing a deployed Army reservist.

U.S. Assistant Attorney General Thomas Perez says those serving their country should be honored for their sacrifices rather than face discrimination because of their military obligations.

The Justice Department filed the suit Monday against Mountain View-based Titan Laboratories, saying the firm violated a federal law that says those who leave civilian jobs to serve in the military must get their jobs back when they return.

The San Jose Mercury News says the suit alleges Titan improperly fired warehouse manager Miguel Orozco Garduno last year. Garduno, who had worked at the industrial cleaning products firm since 2001, was told his deployment forced his termination.
Calif. sued firm for firing Army reservist

Facebook exposes Israeli draft dodgers

Facebook exposes Israeli draft dodgers
From Paula Hancocks, CNN
November 24, 2010 10:49 a.m. EST

Story Highlights
Facebook pages can reveal false claims for a religious exemption from the draft
The pages can show people did things on the Sabbath that orthodox Jews would not do
Military service is required in Israel, with a few exceptions

(CNN) -- Israel's military is using a new weapon to catch draft-dodgers: the social networking site Facebook.

The army says it checks the home pages of those who have sought an exemption from military service because they are orthodox -- religiously observant. The pages sometimes provide evidence that the people have done things that a strictly observant Jew would not do.

About 1,000 female Israelis in the past two years who had claimed to be orthodox have had to "rephrase their religious declarations" and do their military service after being found out, Israeli military spokeswoman Avital Leibovich told CNN.
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Facebook exposes Israeli draft dodgers

Marine Sgt. Michael H. Ferschke Jr. Memorial Act, lives on hold because of Senator Sessions objections

Mother's plea raises hope son's widow can enter US
By Michael Collins
Posted November 24, 2010 at midnight

Called "the Marine Sgt. Michael H. Ferschke Jr. Memorial Act," the bill cleared the U.S. House last week with support from Democrats and Republicans. Supporters were hoping to push the measure quickly through the U.S. Senate as well, but Sessions' objections have slowed it down and could possibly dim its prospects of passing before Congress adjourns at the end of December.

WASHINGTON - A Maryville woman who is trying to bring her widowed Japanese daughter-in-law and infant grandson to East Tennessee urged a U.S. Senator from Alabama on Tuesday to stop holding up a bill that would allow her family to be reunited.

Robin Ferschke met with Sen. Jeff Sessions for about an hour in his office in Mobile, Ala., and made a personal plea for him to let the legislation go forward.

"He said he does believe it should happen, that we need to make this right," Ferschke said.

Sessions is the top Republican on the Senate Judiciary Committee, where the bill is pending. A number of Senate offices have raised concerns the bill language is too broad and would needlessly remove a whole class of immigration safeguards that do not apply to the Ferschkes' situation, said Sessions' spokesman, Stephen Miller.
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Mother's plea raises hope son's widow can enter US

Operation Thriller, USO Authors' Tour




This series of LKL blog exclusives was written by five authors on their experiences from the recent USO tour ‘Operation Thriller’ in the Gulf to entertain our troops.
November 23, 2010
Operation Thriller: Real Life 'Rambo'
David Morrell
USO Authors’ Tour
Kuwait/Iraq 2010

“We joined the army because of your novel and the movie,” two wounded soldiers told me at Walter Reed Army Medical Center. The novel and movie they referred to are First Blood, in which the character of Rambo was created.

“Which means that I bear a responsibility for your being in this hospital,” I told them.

“Not at all,” they answered. “Bad guys planted an IED that blew us up. You didn’t do that. We joined the military for the same reason Rambo did—to help our country. We’re not as badly injured as some of the guys here. We leave the hospital in a couple of weeks, and we want to go back to our unit.”

Whatever I expected at the start of the first-ever USO authors’ tour, it wasn’t a conversation like that. Our journey took us to bases in Kuwait and Iraq, where our group (the other authors were Steve Berry, Andy Harp, Douglas Preston, and James Rollins) emphasized that we wrote made-up action while the troops experienced the real thing, and all we could hope is that our inventions helped to distract them from reality.
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Operation Thriller

UK Army medic becomes only third woman to be awarded Military Cross

Army medic becomes only third woman to be awarded Military Cross
By IAN DRURY
10th November 2010


Bullets whizzing through the air around her, Army medic Sarah Bushbye sprang into action to treat four soldiers severely hurt in a suicide bomb attack.

She ignored the grave risk of more bombs and heavy gunfire to dash more than 100 yards across open ground to reach the men.

Tragically, the two British and two Afghan servicemen wounded when a Taliban bomber detonated his device at the vehicle checkpoint in Sangin, Helmand province, lost their fights for life despite her desperate efforts.


The citation with the combat medical technician’s medal said she worked to help the casualties with ‘flagrant disregard for her own safety’.

Corporal Bushbye – she has been promoted since her exploits in December – received the medal from the Queen at Buckingham Palace.

She said: ‘It was like a horror movie. But it’s all about your training. If you get good training you can g


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