Motorcycle ride to raise funds for children of troops killed in war
By JAKOB RODGERS
The (Colorado Springs, Colo.) Gazette
Published: June 20, 2012
An upcoming motorcycle ride aims to help children whose parents have died in war.
The Freedom Seekers Association will host a 200-mile motorcycle ride across Colorado on July 7, said Jeff Holt, a member of the club. A portion of the proceeds will go to the Children of Fallen Soldiers Relief Fund. The rest will be donated to children in the Pikes Peak region who have lost a father in combat.
The ride will stop at a handful of war memorials along the Front Range, as well as in the mountains just west of Colorado Springs, Holt said.
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Thursday, June 21, 2012
Family needs help getting body of Michael David Copeland out of Iraq
Update
Iraq releases body of US contractor after dispute
June 27, 2012
CBS News
BAGHDAD — The body of an American contractor who was found dead in Baghdad was flown back to the U.S. on Tuesday after a two-week bureaucratic debate over whether the Iraqi government would perform an autopsy on his remains.
Officials said Michael David Copeland, 37, is among a handful of Americans working for the U.S. government to die in Iraq since December. That's when a security agreement between the two nations expired, eliminating immunities that shielded the U.S. military from local laws.
Copeland's case is a snapshot of the new reality of working in Iraq for Americans who, over the years, were accustomed to vast privileges and influence that disappeared when the U.S. troops left.
Officials said Copeland, of Colbert, Okla., moved to Iraq within the last month to take a job on an aviation project with DynCorp International under a State Department contract. His body was found in his bed on June 9, family members said. No foul play was suspected.
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Iraq releases body of US contractor after dispute
June 27, 2012
CBS News
BAGHDAD — The body of an American contractor who was found dead in Baghdad was flown back to the U.S. on Tuesday after a two-week bureaucratic debate over whether the Iraqi government would perform an autopsy on his remains.
Officials said Michael David Copeland, 37, is among a handful of Americans working for the U.S. government to die in Iraq since December. That's when a security agreement between the two nations expired, eliminating immunities that shielded the U.S. military from local laws.
Copeland's case is a snapshot of the new reality of working in Iraq for Americans who, over the years, were accustomed to vast privileges and influence that disappeared when the U.S. troops left.
Officials said Copeland, of Colbert, Okla., moved to Iraq within the last month to take a job on an aviation project with DynCorp International under a State Department contract. His body was found in his bed on June 9, family members said. No foul play was suspected.
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Michael David Copeland served this nation as Marine and then in the National Guards. Had he been killed wearing either uniform, the government would make sure his body came home soon afterwards, but he died working for a defense contractor in Iraq instead. His family needs help getting his body home.
Family of Oklahoma contractor who died in Iraq seeks help getting his body returned
By JERRY WOFFORD
Tulsa World, Okla
Published: June 20, 2012
Family members of a civilian contractor who died in Iraq this month are asking for government officials to put pressure on the Iraqi government to release the body to them.
Michael David Copeland - from Colbert in southern Oklahoma, who served in the Marines and with the Oklahoma Air National Guard - was found dead June 9 in his living quarters in Baghdad. His cause of death has not been released, said Ashley Burke, the vice president of communication for DynCorp International, the company at which Copeland worked.
Michael Wayne Copeland, his father, said his family has spoken with officials from the U.S. State Department and the congressional delegation, but he hasn't seen results.
"Everyone is sorry for our loss and his concern; however, his remains are still in Baghdad," his father said. "All we're interested in is knowing what happened to him and getting him home to lay him to rest."
Copeland's father said he was contacted June 9 by DynCorp officials and notified of his son's death. He said his son had been in Iraq working as an airplane mechanic about a week before his death.
Copeland, 37, served two tours of duty with the Marines before he left and joined the Oklahoma Air National Guard, where he served on another tour. His total military career spanned 13 years, his father said.
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Retirement might unleash PTSD symptoms in Vietnam veterans
Retirement might unleash PTSD symptoms in Vietnam veterans
By LEO SHANE III
Stars and Stripes
Published: June 20, 2012
WASHINGTON — It took Sam Luna more than 35 years to get treatment for his post-traumatic stress disorder.
“I didn’t realize anything was wrong,” the combat-wounded Vietnam veteran said. “I thought I had adjusted well after I came back. I had a job, I had a family, everything looked great from the outside.”
But shortly after he retired in 2004, his anxiety attacks and stress levels increased.
A trip to his local Veterans Affairs hospital triggered war memories. The former soldier started to notice the hair-trigger temper his wife had complained about for years.
He found himself thinking more often about the war — and the friends he lost.
“It was like I had a black box on the mantel for years, but I could ignore it when I left for work every day,” he said. “When I retired, it was still sitting there, waiting for me.”
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By LEO SHANE III
Stars and Stripes
Published: June 20, 2012
WASHINGTON — It took Sam Luna more than 35 years to get treatment for his post-traumatic stress disorder.
“I didn’t realize anything was wrong,” the combat-wounded Vietnam veteran said. “I thought I had adjusted well after I came back. I had a job, I had a family, everything looked great from the outside.”
But shortly after he retired in 2004, his anxiety attacks and stress levels increased.
A trip to his local Veterans Affairs hospital triggered war memories. The former soldier started to notice the hair-trigger temper his wife had complained about for years.
He found himself thinking more often about the war — and the friends he lost.
“It was like I had a black box on the mantel for years, but I could ignore it when I left for work every day,” he said. “When I retired, it was still sitting there, waiting for me.”
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VA to Increase Mental Health Care Access
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
VA to Increase Mental Health Care Access through 200,000 Telemental Health Consultations in 2012
WASHINGTON (June 20, 2012)– In a continuing effort to increase Veterans’ access to mental health care, the Department of Veterans Affairs has set a goal to conduct more than 200,000 clinic-based, telemental health consultations for all mental health specialties in fiscal year 2012. This follows VA’s announcement last month that it would no longer charge Veterans a copayment when they receive care in their homes from VA health professionals using video conferencing.
“Telemental health provides Veterans quicker and more efficient access to the types of care they seek,” said Secretary of Veterans Affairs Eric K. Shinseki. “We are leveraging technology to reduce the distance they have to travel, increase the flexibility of the system they use, and improve their overall quality of life. We are expanding the reach of our mental health services beyond our major medical centers and treating Veterans closer to their homes.”
The clinic-based telehealth program involves the more than 800 VA community-based outpatient clinics (CBOCs) where many Veterans receive primary care. If the CBOCs do not have a mental health care provider available, secure video teleconferencing technology is used to connect the Veteran to a provider within VA’s nationwide system of care.
As a result, Veterans can arrange appointments at times more in synch with their schedules. The program improves access to general and specialty services in geographically remote areas where it can be difficult to recruit mental health professionals.
“As technology is improving people’s lives in many areas, telemental health is making access to health care and support easier for Veterans with mental health conditions,” said Dr. Robert A. Petzel, Under Secretary for Health. “For example, one combat Veteran from Iraq cites telemental health as a critical factor in rebuilding her life and coping with the aftermath of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and military sexual trauma. Telemental health offered her a safe and convenient setting to receive gender sensitive services that helped her fit back into civilian life after three months of therapy.”
Since the start of the Telemental Health Program, VA has completed over 550,000 patient encounters. In Fiscal Year 2011 alone, more than 140,000 encounters were conducted with 55,000 Veterans via CBOCs, where providers at 150 hospitals delivered care to veterans at more than 500 clinics.
The Telehealth Expansion Initiative launched in May 2011 called for an additional 21 regional leads, 144 facility coordinators and 1,150 clinical technicians to VA’s workforce. When fully implemented, the expansion will provide a potential capacity of 1.2 million consultations annually.
Video to the home is currently projected to grow to 2,000 patients by the end of fiscal year 2012, with 1,500 using innovative new Internet Protocol (IP) video connected to Veterans’ personal computers.
In addition to supporting these current programs, the VHA National Telemental Health Center in West Haven, Conn., has pioneered additional new programs that delivered 1,000 specialized patient encounters from mental health experts at multiple VA sites to Veterans throughout the nation. These include over 100 compensation and pension exams, 700 clinical encounters to over 165 Veterans enrolled in behavioral pain treatment programs, and 200 clinical-video and telephone encounters to over 70 Veterans enrolled in a bipolar disorder treatment program.
This campaign is part of VA’s overall mental health program. Last year, VA provided quality, specialty mental health services to 1.3 million Veterans. Since 2009, VA has increased the mental health care budget by 39 percent. Since 2007, VA has seen a 35 percent increase in the number of Veterans receiving mental health services, and a 41 percent increase in mental health staff.
In April, as part of an ongoing review of mental health operations, Secretary Shinseki announced VA would add approximately 1,600 mental health clinicians as well as nearly 300 support staff to its existing workforce of 20,590 to help meet the increased demand for mental health services. The additional staff would include nurses, psychiatrists, psychologists, and social workers.
For more information, on VA’s telemental health, visit the Office of Telehealth Services athttp://www.telehealth.va.gov/.
More than 24,000 Jobs Will Be Offered to Veterans at Detroit VA for Vets Event
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
VA to Host Veteran Hiring Fair at the National Veteran Small Business Conference and Expo in Detroit
More than 24,000 Jobs Will Be Offered to Veterans at Detroit VA for Vets Event
WASHINGTON (June 20, 2012)– The Department of Veterans Affairs Veteran Employment Services Office (VESO) will host its largest hiring fair to date at Detroit’s Cobo Center, June 26-28, from 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. daily.
The unique format of this event is one way the VA for Vets program is helping Veterans get career ready. Veterans can visit www.VAforVets.VA.gov/Detroit now and apply for public and private sector jobs being offered nationwide. Qualified Veterans will be contacted by employers and scheduled for interviews in advance of the event.
“We are committed to improving the lives of our Veterans and their families, and that means helping them find meaningful employment,” said Secretary of Veterans Affairs Eric K. Shinseki. “VA is taking a lead role in seeking innovative ways to bring more Veterans into the civilian workforce.”
VA is hosting three major events at Detroit’s Cobo Center June 26-29: The VA for Vets Hiring Fair, the Veteran open house, and the National Veterans Small Business Conference and Expo. The events are expected to attract thousands of Veterans, business owners and federal employees, with an economic impact estimated at $11 million for the city.
More than 24,000 federal and private-sector job openings across the country will be available at the free Veteran Hiring Fair June 26-28. VA will bring together partners like the First Lady’s “Joining Forces” initiative and the U.S. Chamber of Commerce, along with private sector companies, during the fair. Not only will the fair provide Veterans an opportunity to showcase their skills to potential employers, it will also assist Veterans with resume preparation, interview techniques and career coaching.
VA hosted a similar event Jan. 18 in Washington, D.C., which attracted over 4,100 Veterans and resulted in over 2,600 on-the-spot interviews and more than 500 tentative job offers.
The open house gives Veterans and their families the chance to find out about the wide range of financial and health care benefits, services and resources that are available from federal, state and community agencies. Veterans can conveniently enroll in VA care, sign up for MyHealtheVet, and get their questions answered face to face.
The National Veterans Small Business Conference and Expo is the premier government event for Veteran-owned businesses. Last year’s conference in New Orleans drew almost 5,000 attendees, and more than 6,000 participants are expected this year. VA will provide Veteran-owned and Service-Disabled Veteran-owned businesses with a wide range of information to help them maximize opportunities in the federal workplace.
Known historically as the world’s capital for the transportation industry, the Detroit metro area is reinventing itself with six booming industries: medical research, defense, entertainment, green tech, urban farming, and aeronautics. About 330,000 Veterans are served by the city’s VA medical center, and more than 704,000 Veterans live in Michigan.
VA invites all interested persons and businesses to attend. More information about the small business conference is available at www.nationalveteransconference.com. Information and registration for the hiring fair is available atwww.VAforVets.VA.Gov/Detroit.
Orlando VA is a Multi-Million Dollar Debacle
Miller: New Orlando VA is a Multi-Million Dollar Debacle
For more information, contact: Amy K. Mitchell, (202) 225-3527
JUN 15, 2012
Issues: Health Care, Veterans
WASHINGTON, D.C.—Today, Rep. Jeff Miller, Chairman of the House Committee on Veterans’ Affairs, issued the following statement regarding the construction of the new Orlando Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) Medical Center, which will serve approximately 300,000 veterans and is already two years behind schedule:
“VA has painted a rosy picture for the public and the veterans of Florida for the past two years regarding the construction of the long-overdue Orlando Department of Veterans Affairs Medical Center. VA’s confidence in the timely and on-budget completion of this project was so great that it devoted ‘bid savings’ from this project for use elsewhere around the country. Needless to say, that confidence has given way to a somber reckoning of serious delays and potential cost-overruns.
“A Contract Cure Notice issued today by the Department of Veterans Affairs has the potential to stop construction at the Orlando site and increase the costs moving forward exponentially, if a resolution is not reached. The Committee was assured by VA officials on March 27, and again on May 18 of this year, that VA was working collaboratively with the contractor to ensure issues surrounding the construction of the facility would be resolved and the new timeline set forth by VA would be met. That was clearly not the case.
“This project has been a multi-million dollar debacle, and a failure of this magnitude deserves accountability at the highest level. Unfortunately, we have seen this pattern before. VA management and oversight of large construction and IT projects across the country has been sorely lacking and fraught with incompetence.
“The current situation in Orlando is inexcusable. Pointing fingers and laying blame will not build the medical center the veterans of Central Florida deserve. I expect answers immediately from VA on the status and cost of this project, and the implication of today’s decision on the delivery of care and services to our veterans.”
For more information, contact: Amy K. Mitchell, (202) 225-3527
JUN 15, 2012
Issues: Health Care, Veterans
WASHINGTON, D.C.—Today, Rep. Jeff Miller, Chairman of the House Committee on Veterans’ Affairs, issued the following statement regarding the construction of the new Orlando Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) Medical Center, which will serve approximately 300,000 veterans and is already two years behind schedule:
“VA has painted a rosy picture for the public and the veterans of Florida for the past two years regarding the construction of the long-overdue Orlando Department of Veterans Affairs Medical Center. VA’s confidence in the timely and on-budget completion of this project was so great that it devoted ‘bid savings’ from this project for use elsewhere around the country. Needless to say, that confidence has given way to a somber reckoning of serious delays and potential cost-overruns.
“A Contract Cure Notice issued today by the Department of Veterans Affairs has the potential to stop construction at the Orlando site and increase the costs moving forward exponentially, if a resolution is not reached. The Committee was assured by VA officials on March 27, and again on May 18 of this year, that VA was working collaboratively with the contractor to ensure issues surrounding the construction of the facility would be resolved and the new timeline set forth by VA would be met. That was clearly not the case.
“This project has been a multi-million dollar debacle, and a failure of this magnitude deserves accountability at the highest level. Unfortunately, we have seen this pattern before. VA management and oversight of large construction and IT projects across the country has been sorely lacking and fraught with incompetence.
“The current situation in Orlando is inexcusable. Pointing fingers and laying blame will not build the medical center the veterans of Central Florida deserve. I expect answers immediately from VA on the status and cost of this project, and the implication of today’s decision on the delivery of care and services to our veterans.”
Soldier healing after suicide bomber killed friends
Wounded G.I., Bartram Trail grad making 'amazing' progress
Bartram Trail grad injured by suicide bomber overseas tells family 'I love you'
Posted: June 19, 2012
By SHELDON GARDNER
Bartram Trail grad injured by suicide bomber overseas tells family ‘I love you’
After spending two weeks in a coma, U.S. Army Lt. Ryan Timoney, 26, is awake. He is asking for food and drinks — power bars, apples, ice. He has said “I love you” to his family. He can write, and he is using a motorized wheelchair on his own.
“It’s amazing, it’s amazing what he’s doing,” his mother Diane Timoney said over the phone, her voice upbeat, her speech interspersed with laughter.
Her family has hope now, after two weeks of watching Ryan, a Bartram Trail High School graduate, in a hospital bed — silent, motionless, as he struggled to recover from injuries he suffered after a suicide bomber attacked him and 12 other soldiers in Tarin Kowt, Afghanistan. He is being treated at Walter Reed Army Hospital in Bethesda, Md.
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Bartram Trail grad injured by suicide bomber overseas tells family 'I love you'
Posted: June 19, 2012
By SHELDON GARDNER
Bartram Trail grad injured by suicide bomber overseas tells family ‘I love you’
After spending two weeks in a coma, U.S. Army Lt. Ryan Timoney, 26, is awake. He is asking for food and drinks — power bars, apples, ice. He has said “I love you” to his family. He can write, and he is using a motorized wheelchair on his own.
“It’s amazing, it’s amazing what he’s doing,” his mother Diane Timoney said over the phone, her voice upbeat, her speech interspersed with laughter.
Her family has hope now, after two weeks of watching Ryan, a Bartram Trail High School graduate, in a hospital bed — silent, motionless, as he struggled to recover from injuries he suffered after a suicide bomber attacked him and 12 other soldiers in Tarin Kowt, Afghanistan. He is being treated at Walter Reed Army Hospital in Bethesda, Md.
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Marine saved woman in Lake Michigan
Marine who rescued woman from lake: 'She asked me to please find Leo'
By Deanese Williams-Harris
June 19, 2012
A Marine from suburban Lockport who saved a woman Monday at an Indiana beach said this evening that he didn't want to return to shore without the woman's friend, who also went into Lake Michigan when a raft the two were on capsized.
"I'm humbled by the praise and recognition, but I'm pretty sad that I wasn't able to help both of them," Marine 2nd Lt. Nicholas Dominguez said in a telephone interview.
Monday afternoon, Dominguez along with relatives were visiting the Beverly Shores area in Indiana where his mother and uncle were raised, he said. While visiting neighbors, they decided to take their dogs out to play on the beach.
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By Deanese Williams-Harris
June 19, 2012
A Marine from suburban Lockport who saved a woman Monday at an Indiana beach said this evening that he didn't want to return to shore without the woman's friend, who also went into Lake Michigan when a raft the two were on capsized.
"I'm humbled by the praise and recognition, but I'm pretty sad that I wasn't able to help both of them," Marine 2nd Lt. Nicholas Dominguez said in a telephone interview.
Monday afternoon, Dominguez along with relatives were visiting the Beverly Shores area in Indiana where his mother and uncle were raised, he said. While visiting neighbors, they decided to take their dogs out to play on the beach.
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Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Wounded Warriors press release nothing new
Where is there anything new in this press release from Wounded Warrior Project? We keep waiting for something to come out of this group that is worth the money that has been donated to them and this is what they put out?
Sorry but they still have not lived up to what they could actually do. I am sure they have the passion but they lack imagination and knowledge.
UPDATE June 21, 2012
Free advice for Wounded Warrior Project if you really want to help PTSD veterans heal.
Forget what you read in a textbook! These are the questions they need answers for.
Q Why do I have PTSD but the others I was with don't?
A It is because you feel things more deeply than they do. You don't all have the same anger level, love the same, think the same, have the same sense of humor any more than you all have the same talents at equal levels. Some of your friends may walk away able to "get over it" but if you don't it does not mean you are weaker than they are but you have stronger feelings than they do.
Q Doesn't that mean I'm a sissy?
A No. It means you have compassion and without that, all the courage in the world won't mean anything. Let's say you are the bravest brute in the neighborhood but don't care about anyone. If you saw a kid in the middle of the street, you'd just watch what happens. You have to have compassion to care enough to act and the courage to do something about it. There are a lot of your peers you regard as heroes with some level of PTSD but they just haven't acknowledged it yet.
Q Why do I push people away?
A Some feel they do not deserve to be loved when they have PTSD. Others push people away so they won't get hurt again. Having someone close to you die is a feeling you don't want to suffer from again, so you shut yourself off and emotionally disconnect. Some believe the less they feel the less they'll hurt. This does not make for a very happy life and adds to the miserable thoughts you have.
Q Does it mean I didn't train right if I have PTSD?
A Resiliency Training is a boatload of crap telling you that you can train your brian to prevent PTSD and is a huge part of the problem. I've had Marines telling me they didn't train right and believe they are weak because of this. You need to remember that most of you do not allow yourself to feel the pain as long as your buddies are in danger. Most of you push past it, do your duty to the fullest everyday you are deployed until you are all back home. It is only then that you take down the barrier and allow yourself to feel. That took great courage and dedication to your buddies. It also means that you are unselfish when you could do all you did with that pain inside of you.
Q How do I heal?
A From the inside out. PTSD is caused only one way. From an outside force you had no control over. It hit you. You have to fight it from the inside with all you've got. Mind, body and spirit.
When you get cut, if you don't take care of the wound, it gets infected, spreads out eating away more tissue, getting into your blood stream and hits more parts of your body. It gets worse until you treat it. When you put on an antibiotic, it stops getting worse, begins to heal and as it does, it gets itchy. Once it is gone, how long it was allowed to get worse, predicts how big the scar is.
PTSD works the same way. If you leave it alone and just wait for it to get better, it is getting stronger. If you numb it with alcohol or drugs, you get temporary relief but it gets stronger. You had to learn how to walk leaning on someone you trust, you have to heal the same way and lean on someone you trust now. Talk about it.
That's just the start of what they need to know. I'm not just a consultant. I've lived with what combat does for the last 30 years. I've seen the worst and have been blessed to have been able to stay to see the best come shining through. PTSD does not always win when people have the right kind of weapons to fight it.
If you want to know more, just email me or call me at 407-754-7526.
Sorry but they still have not lived up to what they could actually do. I am sure they have the passion but they lack imagination and knowledge.
June 15, 2012 01:08 PM Eastern Daylight Time
10 Tips for Helping Someone with PTSD from Wounded Warrior Project™
JACKSONVILLE, Fla.--(BUSINESS WIRE)--You don’t have to be a member of the armed forces to have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), but nearly 20 percent of service members deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan reported having symptoms. In recognition of June as PTSD Awareness Month, Wounded Warrior Project™ (WWP) is offering 10 tips for how to help someone who may be suffering from PTSD.
“It is a sign of strength for a returning service member to acknowledge they may have PTSD and ask for help”
“It is a sign of strength for a returning service member to acknowledge they may have PTSD and ask for help,” said John Roberts, executive vice president, mental health and family services for Wounded Warrior Project™. ““These 10 tips are meant to directly help those dealing with PTSD,” added Roberts. “They are also to help others understand that PTSD can be treated and is a normal human reaction to abnormally stressful situations. PTSD can happen to anyone.“
10 Tips for Helping Someone with PTSD
1. Let the veteran determine what they are comfortable talking about and don’t push.
2. Deep breathing exercises or getting to a quiet place can help them cope when the stress seems overwhelming.
3. Writing about experiences can help the veteran clarify what is bothering them and help them think of solutions.
4. Alcohol and drugs may seem to help in the short run, but make things worse in the long run.
5. Crowds, trash on the side of the road, fireworks and certain smells can be difficult for veterans coping with PTSD.
6. Be a good listener and don’t say things like, “I know how you felt,” or, “That’s just like when I…” Even if you also served in a combat zone. Everyone’s feelings are unique.
7. www.restorewarriors.org is a website where warriors and their families can find tools on how to work through combat stress and PTSD issues. Learn about more mental health support resources that ease symptoms of combat stress.
8. Remind warriors they are not alone and many others have personal stories they can share about their readjustment. Talking to other warriors can help them cope.
9. Allow and encourage warriors and their family members to express their feelings and thoughts to those who care about them.
10. Let them know that acknowledging they may have PTSD says they’re strong, not weak.
Wounded Warrior Project
The mission of Wounded Warrior Project™ (WWP) is to honor and empower wounded warriors. WWP’s purpose is to raise awareness and to enlist the public’s aid for the needs of injured service members, to help injured servicemen and women aid and assist each other, and to provide unique, direct programs and services to meet their needs. WWP is a national, nonpartisan organization headquartered in Jacksonville, Florida. To get involved and learn more, visit Wounded Warrior Project.
UPDATE June 21, 2012
Free advice for Wounded Warrior Project if you really want to help PTSD veterans heal.
Forget what you read in a textbook! These are the questions they need answers for.
Q Why do I have PTSD but the others I was with don't?
A It is because you feel things more deeply than they do. You don't all have the same anger level, love the same, think the same, have the same sense of humor any more than you all have the same talents at equal levels. Some of your friends may walk away able to "get over it" but if you don't it does not mean you are weaker than they are but you have stronger feelings than they do.
Q Doesn't that mean I'm a sissy?
A No. It means you have compassion and without that, all the courage in the world won't mean anything. Let's say you are the bravest brute in the neighborhood but don't care about anyone. If you saw a kid in the middle of the street, you'd just watch what happens. You have to have compassion to care enough to act and the courage to do something about it. There are a lot of your peers you regard as heroes with some level of PTSD but they just haven't acknowledged it yet.
Q Why do I push people away?
A Some feel they do not deserve to be loved when they have PTSD. Others push people away so they won't get hurt again. Having someone close to you die is a feeling you don't want to suffer from again, so you shut yourself off and emotionally disconnect. Some believe the less they feel the less they'll hurt. This does not make for a very happy life and adds to the miserable thoughts you have.
Q Does it mean I didn't train right if I have PTSD?
A Resiliency Training is a boatload of crap telling you that you can train your brian to prevent PTSD and is a huge part of the problem. I've had Marines telling me they didn't train right and believe they are weak because of this. You need to remember that most of you do not allow yourself to feel the pain as long as your buddies are in danger. Most of you push past it, do your duty to the fullest everyday you are deployed until you are all back home. It is only then that you take down the barrier and allow yourself to feel. That took great courage and dedication to your buddies. It also means that you are unselfish when you could do all you did with that pain inside of you.
Q How do I heal?
A From the inside out. PTSD is caused only one way. From an outside force you had no control over. It hit you. You have to fight it from the inside with all you've got. Mind, body and spirit.
When you get cut, if you don't take care of the wound, it gets infected, spreads out eating away more tissue, getting into your blood stream and hits more parts of your body. It gets worse until you treat it. When you put on an antibiotic, it stops getting worse, begins to heal and as it does, it gets itchy. Once it is gone, how long it was allowed to get worse, predicts how big the scar is.
PTSD works the same way. If you leave it alone and just wait for it to get better, it is getting stronger. If you numb it with alcohol or drugs, you get temporary relief but it gets stronger. You had to learn how to walk leaning on someone you trust, you have to heal the same way and lean on someone you trust now. Talk about it.
That's just the start of what they need to know. I'm not just a consultant. I've lived with what combat does for the last 30 years. I've seen the worst and have been blessed to have been able to stay to see the best come shining through. PTSD does not always win when people have the right kind of weapons to fight it.
If you want to know more, just email me or call me at 407-754-7526.
Gary Sinise foundation building smart house for wounded veteran
Gary Sinise concert to benefit construction of 'smart home' for wounded Whitehall Township veteran
Published: Wednesday, June 20, 2012
By Dustin Schoof
The Express-Times
Adam Keys needs a new home and actor Gary Sinise is helping to build it.
The "Forrest Gump" and "Apollo 13" star and The Lt. Dan Band will perform Aug. 17 at the State Theatre in Easton, organizers announced Tuesday during a news conference at the theater.
Proceeds from the show will go toward the building of a "smart home" for Keys, a U.S. Army sergeant from Whitehall Township who was wounded in 2010 while serving in Afghanistan.
The concert, which will include a performance by tenor Daniel Rodriguez and performance artist Scott LoBaido, is a joint partnership between the Stephen Siller Tunnel to Towers Foundation and the Gary Sinise Foundation.
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Published: Wednesday, June 20, 2012
By Dustin Schoof
The Express-Times
Express-Times Photo MATT SMITH
U.S. Army Sgt. Adam Keys, of Whitehall Township, who was wounded in Afghanistan in 2010, is greeted by hundreds of community members during a homecoming ceremony back in April.
Adam Keys needs a new home and actor Gary Sinise is helping to build it.
The "Forrest Gump" and "Apollo 13" star and The Lt. Dan Band will perform Aug. 17 at the State Theatre in Easton, organizers announced Tuesday during a news conference at the theater.
Proceeds from the show will go toward the building of a "smart home" for Keys, a U.S. Army sergeant from Whitehall Township who was wounded in 2010 while serving in Afghanistan.
The concert, which will include a performance by tenor Daniel Rodriguez and performance artist Scott LoBaido, is a joint partnership between the Stephen Siller Tunnel to Towers Foundation and the Gary Sinise Foundation.
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