Teresa McCoy says "My Son Is Why We Fight So Hard"

My Son Is Why We Fight So Hard
Teresa McCoy
Posted November 3, 2008
There are times when words almost fail. This is one of those times.

I wanted to take this opportunity to say how much Barack Obama's campaign has meant to me, and how much it's changed my outlook and my life.

I came to this campaign in late August, not knowing what to expect. I had never done anything like this, but I knew that it was time to get off the couch and do something to change my corner. (so to speak) You see, it was my chance to do something to help my son.

James has PTSD. For those who don't know what that is, it's called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and it came directly from Iraq. Fallujah, to be exact. James fought proudly there for sixteen months. He did so without reservation because he wanted to serve his country. It's all he ever wanted to do. I signed the papers for him to be able to accomplish his goal before he ever left high school. I now wish I hadn't done so, but our country called him and I knew that I couldn't stand in the way of that. He was raised to respect his country and his flag, and he fought courageously for America, and he had friends who died for it. He lost his best friend on that battlefield, and the experience profoundly changed and marred his young life.

Our nations military not only sent James to Iraq, but the army sent his family to war with him. We were beside him in spirit, and we counted the days until he got home. There were times when we wondered if the day would ever come that he would come home to us, and when it finally did come, we were ecstatic. Little did we know that when they sent our son home, he would only be a shell of his former self. The light in his eyes was gone, and I know that as much as we love him, and as much as we try to understand, we're never going to see our James again. The innocent young man who went off to war is gone, and he is never coming back.
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