Friday, May 22, 2015

Staff Sgt. Cole Van Dorn Laid to Rest at Arlington

MARINE COLE VAN DORN BURIED AT ARLINGTON, FUELING PTSD FIGHT 
ABC 7 News
By Chuck Goudie
May 21, 2015

WASHINGTON (WLS) -- On Capitol Hill there is movement in both houses of congress on new legislation that would help thousands of service members suffering from PTSD - although it is too late for Marine veteran Cole Van Dorn, who was buried Thursday at Arlington National Cemetery.

In the shadow of the Pentagon, at this resting place for American heroes, a rifle salute to the latest serviceman who died while fighting a hidden enemy in a private war: PTSD.
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WARNING I just put my Chaplain vest in the closet because of what I am going to write and not feeling very "Christian" at the moment. Don't worry because I'll pray to be forgiven and I am sure He'll understand why. The trouble is, no member of Congress will ever get a fucking clue!

The sadness that hits me hard this time of year just turned into full-blown-head-exploding-outrage!

I have been getting sadder around Memorial Day for over 3 decades because every year there are more and more graves filled by veterans who should be marching in parades, not being followed by cars in a funeral procession. The majority of the country is all about having fun but in the veterans community, it is all about what this day was intended to be. Remembering generations of those who paid the price for what we have the other days of the year.

Too many of us remember how many we lost to suicide since last Memorial Day. The rest of the country, if they pay attention at all, keep spouting off with a fictitious 22 a day when the rest of us are fully aware veterans are committing suicide double the civilian rate and even with that fact, we also know we will never, ever know exactly how many decided that one day was the best day to die after surviving combat. Did you get that? Did you notice that they did everything they could to survive combat, make it back home and then gave up? That should tell you something right there and for most of us, it was a message we got years ago.

We've been listening to politicians and profiteers finagle these veterans out of their lives for far too long. It has been going on for as long as the Patriots took a stand against the best military in the world at the time, defeated them and then had to take care of their own wounded. None of them want you to remember that back then when the warfighters were paying the price with their minds because of combat, they were shot as cowards. Today politicians save the bullets and push veterans over the edge to kill themselves. Hey why bother to remind folks that the psychological price of serving was studied during every war and full blown research started over 40 years ago?

There is a special place in hell for all of them and for all the charities out there claiming they are taking care of veterans when clearly, most of them are taking care of themselves. There are some good ones and I am proudly associated in one way or another with them. Then there are the bottom dwellers screaming about "raising awareness" when they don't want anyone to be aware of the basic fact they never say what the fuck they are doing with the money or have to give one single, simple explanation as to why they haven't changed anything for anyone.

Ever wonder why these new groups pop up, get press attention and get swollen bank accounts instead of taking new ideas to older established groups? Here's a clue, they want to keep the money for themselves and have all the attention focused on them, not the veterans needing help.

Members of Congress have had the luxury of lazy reporters failing to ask them why things have gotten worse after decades of spending billions of dollars to make things better for veterans. They got to just blame the VA for the mess instead of having to answer for a single dime of feeding donors pockets with drugs instead of therapy and then their latest pull-the-wool shenanigans of letting veterans see outside doctors. Ya, right, that will work. Ever see a waiting line in an emergency room or long waits at a doctor's office? Ever see a hospital shut down?

The hospital I was born in and my daughter, was torn down. It is now a supermarket. Ever see a VA Hospital shut down?

Tomorrow is the opening of the new Lake Nona VA here in Florida. The groundbreaking was in 2008 and they handed out shovels as momentos. We didn't them considering all the crap we've all had to deal with all these years we needed this instead.

House and Senate members (but not their families) also are eligible to receive care at military hospitals. For outpatient care, there is no charge at the Washington, D.C., area hospitals (Walter Reed Army Medical Center and National Naval Medical Center). Inpatient care is billed at rates set by the Department of Defense. That was from AARP.

Politicians write the rules. They extended the time the troops can get free healthcare from the VA but didn't think to make sure they also hired enough doctors and nurses to take care of those entering in line behind combat wounded veterans.
Enhanced Eligibility For Health Care Benefits
Veterans who served in a theater of combat operations after November 11, 1998 are eligible for an extended period of eligibility for health care for 5 years post discharge.

Under the "Combat Veteran" authority, the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) provides health care services and community living care for any condition possibly related to the Veterans’s service in the theater of operations and enrollment in Priority Group 6, unless eligible for enrollment in a higher priority group to:

Combat Veterans who were discharged or released from active service on or after January 28, 2003, are eligible to enroll in the VA health care system for 5 years from the date of discharge or release.

What they don't tell you is that older veterans were put to the back of the line as well and they are also the majority of the suicides. But hey, why remind anyone they suffered longer and waited longer for promised changes they fought for in the first place?

We are watching them not getting the help they need from politicians hoping we don't remember and from profiteers hoping we don't notice what they are not doing. We are watching them die remembering and noticing everything, but reporters can't even remember what they wrote last week about facts destroying what some yahoo just claimed and never nailing them on it.

Ever wonder what suicides of younger veterans does to older ones? It reminds them of all the bullshit they've heard over and over and over again followed by more and more empty speeches blaming everyone but themselves and not one single hearing asking for accountability from anyone other than who they think will make an easy target of the day.

Too bad it is all on record and everyone can read who did what and when they did it. We know about all the stupid questions being asked during "hearings" but not one question that made any difference to anyone.

The reports about medications replacing therapy have been out for years but nothing has changed. They keep talking about doing something but then the drug companies will lose money. Why bother to do what was proven to be the most effective, which is peer support and talk therapy? After all, why fund the best when the most expensive is acceptable?

The question is how long do they think it will take until they reach the "one too many" they keep talking about? How many more have to die before someone does something real to change all this?

This is what it all boils down to. Congress knew about all this but after hearings, nothing was really done to change the outcome.
VA doctors tell House lawmakers of pressure to prescribe veterans opiates
The Center for Investigative Reporting
By Aaron Glantz
Published: October 10, 2013

The hearing marked the first time VA officials have spoken publicly about the skyrocketing number of painkiller prescriptions since The Center for Investigative Reporting revealed the trend last month.

"There are multiple instances when I have been coerced or even ordered to write for Schedule II narcotics when it was against my medical judgment," said Dr. Pamela Gray, a physician who formerly worked at the VA hospital in Hampton, Va.

Primary care doctors who don't want to prescribe large amounts of opiates may resign, do as they are told or be terminated, Gray said. Gray was fired.
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You can find more about what Congress had hoped we'd all forget with Veteran Suicides Apocalypse Now because it was all happening before the internet and the general public had the ability to learn.

They hoped we'd forget that the VA has 1,000 veterans a month attempting suicide, even though there is the Veterans Crisis Line taking in thousands of calls every month and there is an ever growing number outside the VA system they admit they have no clear count of.

Vietnam veterans were trained to fight and kill but no one ever claimed they were trained to heal afterwards. For Gulf War veterans, it is the same story but no one talks about them. For OEF and OIF veterans, they are triple their peer rate after they had been trained in "prevention" and given all the attention of the new charities only interested in them.

It happened before the DOD spent billions a year on "prevention" that didn't work as they refused to change anything. It happened before the umteenth chairity begged for your money but didn't think they had to explain what they were doing with the money.

It all happened long before this generation and that is the saddest part of all. It is all still happening.

Family Searching for Missing Fort Carson Soldier

Family asks for help in search for AWOL soldier 
KRDO News
Greg Miller, Multimedia Journalist
May 22, 2015

COLORADO SPRINGS, Colo.
A Chicago-area father is in Colorado Springs, desperately searching for his son.

Pvt. Daniel Domres is listed as AWOL from Fort Carson. His family is afraid his disappearance may be the result of a form of PTSD. And they're not the only ones with that concern.

“Just something happened, I don't know what it is” said Tom Domres, Daniel’s father. “I made a promise, said if something bad happens, I'd find him... that's why I'm here.”

Domres was stationed at Fort Carson after his nine-month tour in Afghanistan ended last year.

During his training and initial tour, he had a spotless record.

“He got along with leadership extremely well. They asked him to go Ranger 12 times asked him to go sniper scout,” Tom Domres said.

But then he deployed and the 20-year-old started acting differently.

“He withdrew from the guys in the unit,” he said. “He spent some time alone, there were a couple of incidents and I think he made some bad choices.”
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Florida Makes 5th Place State for Military Retirees

Analysis ranks best, worst states for military retirees
ABC News 10
By Brittney Petro
Published: May 22, 2015

A newly released analysis ranks “2015’s Best and Worst States for Military Retirees” based on a state’s ability to support retired veterans. WalletHub looked at 20 key factors when determining the rankings.

The three major categories in the ranking included economic environment, quality of life and healthcare. However, WalletHub took other factors into consideration as well, such as job opportunities, housing prices, veteran-owned businesses and veteran homelessness.

Top 5 States for Military Retirees:
1. Wyoming
2. Montana
3. South Dakota
4. Maine
5. Florida

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"Paralyzed" Veteran Walks Again After Getting Free Home?

Homes for Our Troops questions veteran's paralysis after video 
KENS 5
Dillon Collier
May 20, 2015

Weeks after the couple moved into a home in rural Hays County, videos and pictures surfaced showing Justin walking on the property
DRIPPING SPRINGS -- A national non-profit that built a specially-adapted house in Dripping Springs for a wounded Army veteran is now 'weighing its options', after contrasting stories have emerged regarding the severity of the soldier's injuries.

Army Specialist Justin Perez-Gorda suffered a traumatic brain injury while serving in Afghanistan in January 2011.

For years, he and his wife claimed publicly he was paralyzed from the belly button down.

"He has permanent loss of use of both lower extremities. He's paralyzed from the belly button down," Josephine Perez-Gorda said during a taped video segment later used by Homes for Our Troops for fundraising efforts.
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Students Sent to Detention Defending Flag Against Teacher

Teacher Accused of Stomping on American Flag in Front of Students
May 21, 2015
As seen on Fox and Friends

An Illinois town is in an uproar after a teacher allegedly stomped on a flag in front of his students.

Two parents of children at Martinsville High School were on “Fox and Friends” this morning to discuss the ordeal.

Gina Gibson said that the unnamed teacher was using the American flag as a pointer in the classroom, even though students objected to the flag being used in that manner.

She said the students cautioned the teacher not to let Old Glory touch the floor, and that’s when he stomped on the flag, telling his students that it was his right to do so.

Gibson said that some students – her son included – were sent to the office to be given detention for refusing to lift their heads off of their desks following the teacher's actions.
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Congress Inaction Always Harms Veterans

This weekend in Orlando the new Lake Nona VA Hospital is finally opening. I went to the groundbreaking back in 2008. This was the news back then. Orlando VA Medical Center Awards Final Contract For New Medical Center
The $665 million medical campus, located on a 65-acre campus in southeast Orange County, is expected to open in late 2012. In addition to the hospital providing acute care, complex specialty care and advanced diagnostic services, the facility will also have a large multispecialty outpatient clinic, 134-inpatient beds, 120-community living center beds, a 60-bed domiciliary and administrative and support services.
As you can see, building a VA hospital is never quick or easy or cheap. The point is, that years pass from the time Congress gets around to approving plans, accepting bids, and getting the land to build it on. A lot happens in between the time Congress approves it and it actually happens.

Congress has the responsibility to oversee everything so when things don't happen, they are supposed to take action to make sure it does. So why didn't they?
VA chief rips Congress for ‘inaction’ on Denver hospital
The Hill
By Martin Matishak
05/20/15
The authorization for the project, which began more than a decade ago, expires this weekend.
Veterans Affairs Secretary Robert McDonald is warning lawmakers that, unless they act soon, construction on a delay-plagued VA hospital outside of Denver will come “grinding to a halt.”

“I have provided multiple proposals to the Congressional authorizing committee as to how we can complete this campus for veterans. The options were rejected and the result has been inaction. Our veterans deserve better than that,” McDonald said Wednesday in a statement.

He said that, “without immediate Congressional action prior to returning home for the Memorial Day holiday recess, construction on the Denver Replacement Medical Center in Aurora will shut down Sunday, grinding to a halt as Kiewit Turner demobilizes its team of contractors and sub-contractors.”

Earlier this week, the agency chief sent a memo to the leaders of the Senate Veterans’ Affairs Committee and other lawmakers, asking for a $200 million increase in the funding limit for the facility being built in Aurora, Colo., for a new total of $1 billion.
“Let me be clear. Inaction by Congress will punish the nearly 400,000 Colorado veterans and families that Aurora will serve,” he added.
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Thursday, May 21, 2015

Father of Marine Struggles After Suicide

FATHER OF MARINE GRAPPLES WITH SON'S DEATH AFTER PTSD STRUGGLE
ABC 7 News
By Chuck Goudie and Christine M. Tressel
May 28, 2015
Two days before he died, Cole had asked his dad to watch "American Sniper," a riveting war memoir.

"He said it portrays very well the kind of meltdown psychologically of a guy doing what he was doing," Tom Van Dorn said. "He said that's him, making these decisions on who lives and who dies."
ARLINGTON, Va. (WLS) -- Tom Van Dorn, a pianist and composer, wrote music for a video he made about his son's first deployment. He can no longer bear to watch it.

On April 8, his 29-year-old son, Staff Sgt. Cole Van Dorn, was found dead at his home in Southern California. He was being treated for PTSD and taking about a dozen drugs, his father said.

Two thousand miles away in west suburban Bloomingdale, his father got the terrible news. He had just spoken to his son a couple days before.

He never thought his son was suicidal.

"I'm guessing that it was 30 hours later that he died," Tom Van Dorn said.

One in five service members have post-traumatic stress disorder.

Government data says there are 300,000 servicemembers with PTSD, depression or brain trauma after serving in Iraq and Afghanistan.

At least 22 veterans commit suicide each day, according to the Veterans Administration.

"Treat these Marines -- whoever is in charge -- like this is your kid," said Tom Van Dorn. "That's all I want."
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Reporter Thinks Loving Veteran With PTSD is New?

This is what I got in my email and made me spit out my coffee on my desk. It missed my monitor.
Pair's book sheds light on spousal PTSD fight StarNewsOnline.com
The two women had spouses who were diagnosed with PTSD. ... unchartered territory of loving someone with post-traumatic stress disorder ( PTSD).
"Unchartered?" Seriously? What they hell did the reporter think all other generations were doing? Any clue how many books have been written over the years about all of this? Just one more case of the media manipulation instead of doing some basic research.


I've been doing this for over 30 years and even wrote a couple of books about it but someone else wrote books long before me.

Patience Press started in 1993 with the publication of Why Is Daddy Like He Is? a book for the children of veterans with PTSD and the first issue of The Post-Traumatic Gazette. We also sold remaindered hardback copies of the Viking (1990) edition of Recovering from the War: A Woman’s Guide to Helping Your Vietnam Veteran, Your Family and Yourself. When we ran out in 1998, Bob created a new cover for the book and, because so many veterans had found it helpful even those from other wars, we changed the subtitle to A Guide for All Veterans, Family Members, Friends and Therapists.

Patience also wrote a series of pamphlets about PTSD: After the War: For the Wives of All Veterans, An Explanation of PTSD for Twelve Steppers:When I get sober I feel crazy, and The War at Home. This was followed by Why Is Mommy Like She Is? a book for the children of women trauma survivors. When the new wars started, she wrote a pamphlet for the new veterans, Home from War. Finally, she wrote a new version of Why Is Mommy Like She Is? for military women who have been deployed or suffered MST. All of these are now available free on this website. You may copy them and share them as long as you retain Patience’s copyright notice.

There are thousands of book about living with PTSD but as long as reporters want to pretend no one was charting what life was like, then history will simultaneously be repeated and ignored. If you want to know why things have gotten worse with more being done on PTSD, it is simply because most of the true groundbreaking work was done before the internet.

Fallen Soldier Left Alone At Atlanta Airport Hype

First start with what happened and then read the headline.
At no point were the remains left unattended. In fact, a member of Delta's dedicated Honor Guard as well as a military escort were inside the vehicle as they waited for the arrival of the outbound aircraft.


They are never left alone.
Delta's Honor Guard welcome home fallen soldier and dog
Emotional moment Delta's Honor Guard welcomes home fallen soldier and dog as team of Delta employees volunteer to commemorate in special ceremony.
If you want to see a movie for Memorial Day, start with this one. Kevin Bacon in Taking Chance.




Delta spokesman says that you can even see a worker in the corner of the picture and you can see his arm and orange vest. Too bad this close to Memorial Day the reporter couldn't have shown more dignity to the fallen soldier than start with a headline like this.

Iraq veteran claims soldier's body was left unattended at airport
WBRC
By Dante Renzulli
Posted: May 20, 2015
ATLANTA (CBS46) - It's not unusual for Delta Air Lines to be trusted with the important task of bringing home the remains of a fallen soldier.

Normally, you will find the Delta Honor Guard present as a flag-draped transfer case is loaded or unloaded onto a plane. But Iraq veteran Steven Cathey said when he looked out the window of his connecting flight at Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International Airport, he saw a soldier's body sitting alone.

CBS46 reached Cathey by phone at his home in Jacksonville. "It's kind of upsetting to see a fallen service member, another brother or sister in arms, just sitting there out in the open, like a piece of luggage," said Cathey.

According to Cathey, other passengers noticed too. He said he observed the soldier's body unattended for at least 20 minutes. "We were talking about it on the plane, and then I took it from the plane and put it up on social media to see what other people had to say about it," said Cathey.
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Fort Bragg "Captain America" Soldier Rescued Crash Victims

Bragg soldier pulls three from fiery wreckage after Chatham crash 
WRAL News
May 19, 2015
"I took an oath to help serve the United States, foreign and domestic, so when I was there, I realized that I was the only one there at the time who could help.
CARY, N.C. — A Fort Bragg soldier is being hailed as a hero for rescuing three people after a weekend collision in eastern Chatham County.

A car and an SUV collided on O'Kelly Chapel Road near Cary on Sunday afternoon when, according to the State Highway Patrol, the SUV driver tried to pass another vehicle. "I heard the giant explosion. It sounded bad.

I got on 911 immediately without even seeing it," said John Spurrell, who was working in his backyard at the time. By the time Spurrell ran to the road, he saw the front of the car smashed in and flames erupting from the SUV, which was on its side.

He also saw a man in a Captain America T-shirt running into the fire to drag the SUV driver to safety. Army Capt. Steve Voglezon was off duty and on his way to a shopping mall when he came upon the crash. 

Even though he has only basic first aid training, the missile defense officer said his instincts kicked in as he pulled the driver out by his belt and, together with three other people, carried him away from the wreckage. read more here

Kindergarten Cops Stand-in Dad's Place

Dad Serving in Afghanistan Can't Attend Daughter's Kindergarten Graduation, Local Police Come Instead 
GOOD MORNING AMERICA
By ALEXA VALIENTE
May 20, 2015
"There’s a lot of our officers in the military," Flores said. "And they all look out for each other."
The Mesa Police Department attended Sophia Prinkey's kindergarten graduation, because her father and Mesa police officer Shawn Prinkey is serving in the military in Afghanistan. Courtesy Mesa Police Department
Most graduates invite their family and close friends to the ceremony -- but one Arizona kindergarten student got to bring the local police department to hers.

Shawn Prinkey is a motorcycle officer and 14-year veteran of the Mesa Police Department.

As a part-time member of the military, Prinkey is also serving in the Army in Afghanistan and couldn't make his daughter Sophia's kindergarten graduation on May 13. So his fellow Mesa police officers decided to attend the event for him instead.
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Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Defeating PTSD Starts With Understanding It

Wounded Times
Kathie Costos
May 20, 2015

My friend Gunny keeps saying "Improvise, Adapt and Overcome." (adopted mantra in many units) That is part of the "awareness" that has escaped all the good meaning folks running around the country as if brining the problem to the public's attention has done any good at all. Civilians don't understand why so many veterans commit suicide anymore than they understand much else about the military. On the flip side, veterans are well aware of the problems far too many face but what they need to know more is what they can do to change any of it.

Some veterans want the "D" dropped from the term Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) as if that would change the way folks think.

Ty Carter, Afghanistan veteran and Medal of Honor Recipient is among many believing the term change would change attitudes. It won't. It has been tried far too many times before. As researchers learned more about what trauma does, especially combat trauma, they have adapted terms to include what they learned.

First take the word "Trauma" itself since all of us know "Post" means after something,
trauma (n.) 1690s, "physical wound," medical Latin, from Greek trauma "a wound, a hurt; a defeat," from PIE *trau-, extended form of root *tere- (1) "to rub, turn," with derivatives referring to twisting, piercing, etc. (see throw (v.)). Sense of "psychic wound, unpleasant experience which causes abnormal stress" is from 1894.

And now "stress"
Medical Definition of STRESS
1 a : a force exerted when one body or body part presses on, pulls on, pushes against, or tends to compress or twist another body or body part; especially : the intensity of this mutual force commonly expressed in pounds per square inch
b : the deformation caused in a body by such a force
2 a : a physical, chemical, or emotional factor that causes bodily or mental tension and may be a factor in disease causation
b : a state of bodily or mental tension resulting from factors that tend to alter an existent equilibrium
3: the force exerted between teeth of the upper and lower jaws during mastication

And now "disorder"
Definition of DISORDER
1: to disturb the order of
2: to disturb the regular or normal functions of

As you can see, the term fits what it is perfectly. The trouble isn't with the term but with how it has received a negative attitude.

When things are out of place, it means that everything is still there but the pieces are jumbled up.

Think of a puzzle. When my daughter was 2, her Godmother gave her a couple of puzzles for older kids. I put them away for when she was ready for them but somehow she found them. She thought they were pictures. She took off the covering and a piece fell out. She thought she broke the picture and was upset until I explained to her that it wasn't broken and just needed to be put back in again. Long story short, she ended up mastering putting pieces where they needed to go.

American Military History Jigsaw Puzzle 1000pc

It is all together when the pieces are cut and shaped. Then they are put into a box, closed, sealed and shipped off. When you open it, you see a nice box cover then look at the 1,000 pieces wondering how you can make it all fit back together again.

All the pieces are there in the disordered pile just like a veteran with PTSD. It is all still there. The basic reason they decided to serve is still there but they just can't find it in the pile of all they went through. All their memories are covering it.

The good times they shared are still there but again, more pieces are on top that are not so good and not so nice. Somehow the painful ones cover the good memories. Covering the painful ones are the horrific ones.

Once everything is being put into place, a different image emerges. Miss a couple of pieces and it won't look the same as when all the pieces are put back into the proper place.

Veterans are not missing any pieces and there is nothing weak about them. When you consider they managed to survive combat, that is not even a logical one. Another illogical assumption is that they are stuck suffering the way they are right now. While there is no cure for PTSD, there is healing. No one is stuck suffering. PTSD can be defeated.
Debellatio means the act of conquering or subduing. The term indicates end of a war caused by complete destruction of a hostile state.
There can be an end to the internal war fought inside the veteran because of the external battles they fought in our name.

It has to begin by addressing the whole veteran. Their mind, body and their soul/spirit or for those who do not believe in the soul, the emotional part of the mind. Leave one part out and the outcome is not as good as if all the parts were included in the final production.

Anyone paying attention, or thinking they have, has repeated the "22 a day" as the count of veterans surviving combat but taking their own lives back at home. That number is not real. State after state reports that veterans are committing suicide double the civilian population rate. For younger veterans, they commit suicide triple their peer rate. Even with all the "awareness" being raised and all the charities, foundations and this research project followed by that program, the numbers show it is a whole lot of folks feeling good about doing something even though that "something" has done more harm than good.

Veterans are not a "project"
something that is contemplated, devised, or planned; plan; scheme.

They are "protectors" and willing to die in order to save others they serve with.
A hero (masculine or gender-neutral) or heroine (feminine) (Ancient Greek: ἥρως, hḗrōs) is a person or character who, in the face of danger and adversity or from a position of weakness, displays courage or self-sacrifice—that is, heroism—for some greater good. Historically, the first heroes displayed courage or excellence as warriors. The word's meaning was later extended to include moral excellence.

Etymology
The word hero comes from the Greek ἥρως (hērōs), "hero, warrior",[3] literally "protector" or "defender".[4] Before the decipherment of Linear B the original form of the word was assumed to be *ἥρωϝ-, hērōw-; R. S. P. Beekes has proposed a Pre-Greek origin.[5]

According to the American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language, the Indo-European root is *ser meaning "to protect". According to Eric Partridge in Origins, the Greek word Hērōs "is akin to" the Latin seruāre, meaning to safeguard. Partridge concludes, "The basic sense of both Hera and hero would therefore be 'protector'."

PTSD does not have to win at all but as long as we accept what has been going on instead of changing the conversation, changing the way we treat them, they will never see what is really inside of them or discover what is possible. The truth is, as bad as the real numbers are of veterans committing suicide, the majority of them are healing because they stopped doing what didn't work and found what worked for them.

A lot of that has to do with the fact they understand that they will not fit back into the civilian world, since civilians did not understand them when they were in the military any more than they can understand that level of unselfishness. They do fit in perfectly with other veterans and among them, they are understood, supported and find they do in fact belong with them.

There are many other words we can use like this one,
Nikao (pronounced nik-ah'-o) to subdue (literally or figuratively):--conquer, overcome, prevail, get the victory.

What is "evil" within them is only a thought they have and that voice can get so loud they actually start to forget that they are not evil. Evil people do not grieve for anyone other than themselves. There is no pain greater than grieving for someone else or as unselfish. If they understand where that pain is coming from, they are part way there to defeating the pain they carry.
1 John 2:14 New International Version (NIV) I write to you, dear children, because you know the Father. I write to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I write to you, young men, because you are strong, and the word of God lives in you, and you have overcome the evil one.


No veteran is stuck where they are and the real evidence of walking miracles is what they turn around to do once they begin to heal. They pass it on so that other veterans can live better lives as well.

Legally Blind Veteran's Organs Taken, Including Eyes

Lawsuit claims VA hospital harvested organs from non-donor 
WSMV News
Posted: May 18, 2015

MURFREESBORO, TN (WSMV) - A widow in Murfreesboro told Channel 4 her husband's organs were donated, but he was not a donor.
Medical records show that when Kevrek Frierson asked if he wanted to be an organ donor, he said no. He was legally blind, yet records show his eyes and several other organs were donated.
Left to right: Wanda, Kevrek and Myia Frierson

Wanda Frierson said she honored her husband Kevrek Frierson's wishes in life. She was distraught they aren't being honored in death.

"This wasn't right," she said.

Kevrek Frierson had diabetes and several other illnesses when he went to the Veterans Administration hospital in Murfreesboro. He fell gravely ill in June 2014.

After multiple trips to the hospital, he died.

"I just felt like something was not right and I just remember I said, 'Dad, I love you,'" said Myia Frierson, the couple's daughter. "And he said, 'Myia, I love you, too.' And that was the last thing I said to him."

Adding to their pain, the family said Tennessee Donor Services immediately rushed to collect Kevrek Frierson's organs. But they said he wasn't an organ donor.

"I told them it was in his medical records that he is not a donor," Wanda Frierson said. "He never was one."
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Sgt. Andrew Brenner Survived 4 Tours, Lived 2 Months As Veteran

WITNESSES SOUGHT IN FATAL CUMBERLAND COUNTY CRASH INVOLVING VETERAN
ABC11 News
Greg Barnes
Tuesday, May 19, 2015

CUMBERLAND COUNTY, N.C. (WTVD) -- The State Highway Patrol is looking for anyone who might have witnessed a wreck that killed a decorated Iraqi war veteran.

Sgt. Andrew Brenner was out of uniform barely two months when he was killed.

"He was very giving," said Brenner's wife, April. "He was a great husband and wonderful man."

Brenner said he was also a decorated war hero who loved his country.

"He was very dedicated to his job. He served four tours in Iraq," she said. "He's been around the world and back again."

Andrew Brenner also loved his Harley. He was riding it home Friday when he was hit at the intersection of N.C. Highway 87 south and Tom Starling Road, which is southeast of Fayetteville.

The Highway Patrol said Brenner pulled into the intersection and was hit by a SUV traveling south on NC 87. He later died.
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Tuesday, May 19, 2015

One WWII Army Blanket Warms Two Army Veterans

WW II veteran donates Army blanket to homeless vet 
South Florida Sun-Sentinel
By Marvin Glassman
May 18, 2015
Lepolstat, who will turn 94 on May 29, received the Army blanket when he was discharged from a hospital in Springfield, Missouri in 1943. Lepolstat was with the U.S. Army Signal Corps from 1942-46.
When World War II veteran Stanley Lepolstat of Hollywood offered an old Army blanket of his to the Temple Sinai of Hollywood blanket drive for the homeless last February, he had no idea how significant the 72-year-old army blanket would be for the recipient.

According to Rabbi Gideon Goldenholtz of Temple Sinai, the recipient of the blanket was, like Lepolstat, also a veteran of the Army and he was looking specifically for an Army blanket.

"While we were handing out our blankets, a 28-ish homeless veteran came up and asked 'Do you have any army blankets?' We had the Army blanket from Stanley Lepolstat and gave it to him.

His face and eyes lit up a little when he said 'Thank you very much' and he appeared to feel a little safer holding onto the blanket," said Goldenholz.

"I consider the story of a veteran who is homeless receiving the blanket as a miracle. It is so important to me that the person who received the Army blanket was a veteran.

I don't know why I kept the Army blanket for so many years, but I am so very happy for donating it when I did," said Lepolstat.

"Was it Bashert, meant to be, or merely a coincidence? We think not," said Goldenholz. read more here